I REALLY did not want to do this

Hello, wonderful you,

Can you believe it's already Week 11 of 90 Days to Be Seen? Time really does fly!

Every week, before I sit down to write to you, I take a moment to check in with myself. I ask: Where am I on my journey to being seen? What’s the next step that feels scary, but would lead to growth?

And even though sharing is still a little uncomfortable, the fear is starting to fade—bit by bit.

I realized that the next step for me was to share my message through video. To let you see my face, and hear my voice. I mentioned this to my coach, telling her, “Maybe next week... or next quarter…”

Her response was clear: “Nope, you're doing it now. If it feels cringy, that’s exactly why you need to do it.” 😅

I can’t lie—I didn’t want to do it AT ALL. I kept putting it off, telling myself I wasn’t ready. The lighting wasn’t perfect, my office setup wasn’t ideal. But I committed to 90 Days of Being Seen, and here I am—sharing a video that’s far from perfect, but 100% from the heart. 💖 I hope it serves you in a meaningful way on your path.

In the video, I talk about something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately: how we can navigate these changing times. I share 4 truths that I hope will support you as we move forward together. And here it is—just click to watch. 🎥

I also share the importance of tuning into our hearts to guide us, rather than letting fear take the lead. To help with that, I’ve created a FREE meditation—Awaken to Your Heart’s Wisdom just for you, which I hope will bring you peace and clarity. ✨

So, how about you, my friend? How’s your own journey going with being seen? What’s the next uncomfortable step that you can take to push yourself forward?

 

📝 Journaling Prompt:

What’s one fear or discomfort you’re avoiding right now that, if faced, would help you grow? Take a moment to journal about it—what’s the next step you can take toward facing it?

 

🌟 Mini Challenge:

Record a short video or voice message for yourself. It could be a simple "hello" or something you’ve been thinking about lately. Then, watch or listen to it. Notice how it feels to see or hear yourself—and give yourself credit for taking that step!

 

With love,

Monica

Monica Stevanovic

31 March 2025

Life Designer® coach

Monica Stevanovic